He was preceded in death by his parents; wife of thirty-three years Julia Marie O'Connor Havekost in 1997; younger brother Dale, in 2013, brother-in-law, Alan Ott, in 2025, son, Joel Marreel in 2025.
He is survived by his second wife, Connie J. (Hummel) (Marreel) Havekost; daughters, Kendra Weast and husband Jason of Culpeper, Virginia; Seana Whapham and husband John of Montgomery, Ohio; daughter Jill Woodward and husband Bart of Minden, Nebraska; daughter Tammi Marreel of Hooper, Nebraska; twelve grandchildren; five great grandchildren; sister Barb Muller and husband Duane; sister Genell Havekost, many nieces and nephews and many friends and former colleagues.
Don would like to be remembered as a man who lived well, laughed often and loved much; who gained the respect of intelligent men and women and the love of children and grandchildren; who filled his niche and accomplished his task; who leaves the world better than he found it; who never lacked appreciation for the earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had.
A celebration of life service will be held at Redeemer Lutheran Church in Hooper, Nebraska on Tuesday, February 3rd, 2026 at 10:30. Please direct memorial funds to an academic scholarship fund of your choice for deserving seniors in high school to attend college.
Online guestbook at www.Ludvigsenmortuary.com
Condolences(4)
Bruce Baker
Hastings, NE Monday, February 2, 2026 Don was a good man. A man of sincerity, honesty and integrity. I was always proud to call Don my friend and my Brother. Well done good and faithful servant! Praying for Gods grace and comfort for the family.Mark & Donna Love
Norfolk, NE Monday, February 2, 2026 Don was a wonderful man. He had such a welcoming demeanor about him. We are grateful to have known him. He will be missed. To the family, you have our deepest sympathy. May he rest in God’s eternal peace.Lynn and Rose Lamberty
Wichita, KS Monday, February 2, 2026 It was always a pleasure to o spend time with Don. His enthusiasm and good will were a blessing to those around him. His faithful service to his country was a blessing as well. Our prayers are with Connie and the family.Jason/Amy Hergenroeder
Waterloo, IL Sunday, February 1, 2026 Amy and I are keeping the entire family in our thoughts and prayers. May the Peace of Christ be with you all.